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Two years carpooling a used Pilot from harbert's, honest review

ThreeKidsAndaDog
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Dec 2, 2025
harbertsautosales.com honda pilot carpool suv 3 row crossover used family suv

kris asked me to spin my pilot story out into its own thread since i kept hijacking his highlander one, so here it is. this is our 2018 Honda Pilot EX-L that i bought off harbertsautosales.com two years ago and have run as the daily carpool rig ever since.

setup. AWD, the 3.5 V6, 9 speed, 58k when i bought it, one owner trade in. we are three kids and a big dog out in naperville, and this thing does school runs, soccer, two travel teams, and a costco trip every single week. i paid 28 flat which was solid for a loaded EX-L in that mileage range, the honda dealer near me wanted 34 for a comparable one with more miles on it.

why i went used and why harbert's. we are just not new car people, i would rather let the first owner eat the depreciation and put the difference toward the kids activities that never stop costing money. the listing had a big stack of real photos, third row up and down, cargo with the seats folded, the tires, even the curb rash on one wheel. i called and they had the carfax right there and walked me through the service history without me even asking twice.

the one honest knock, and i list this every time because these threads are useless if we all pretend our trucks are perfect, was the rear wiper motor was dead when i got it. did not catch it on the test drive because it was not raining that day. harbert's mailed me a check for the part and my local shop knocked it out for 90 bucks all in. minor, but it was real, so it goes on the record.

two years and 31k miles later the pilot has been a rock. anybody else daily a used 3 row for carpool duty, how has yours held up over the long haul?

this is the exact thread i needed. we are deciding between a used pilot and a used highlander for our growing crew and i keep going back and forth. how does the pilot second row work for three car seats across? that is my whole deciding factor since we will have two boosters and an infant seat before long.

SuburbanJenna wrote
how does the pilot second row work for three car seats across?

jenna this is where the pilot quietly wins for a lot of families. the EX-L second row bench is a touch wider than the highlander and we run two boosters and a convertible seat across it, all three buckled, without anybody climbing over anybody. it is snug but it works, and it worked when they were smaller too.

if three across is your hard requirement i would go drive both with your actual seats in hand, thats the only real test. bring the car seats to the lot and try them. the highlander is a fantastic truck, kris is right about that in his thread, but for three seats side by side the pilot got the nod for us. either way buying used is the move, you will save thousands.

good honest writeup, and i appreciate you owning the dead wiper motor instead of pretending the truck was flawless. thats the kind of little used car thing you just expect, and 90 bucks is a rounding error next to the 6 grand you saved buying pre owned.

one thing for anyone reading at this mileage, the pilot 9 speed likes a fresh transmission fluid service on schedule, do not skip it and do not let a shop talk you into some lifetime fluid nonsense. keep up with it and the drivetrain is happy for a long long time. same basic story as the toyotas, maintenance is the whole ballgame on a used family SUV.

glad you finally started your own thread, i was tired of you burying good info in mine ha. the pilot second row width is the real deal, if we had needed three across a little longer i honestly might have gone pilot too. ended up on the highlander for us but it was close.

funny how similar our buying experiences were with harbert's, same stack of honest photos, same carfax up front, same fix the little thing before you take it home deal. good to see it wasnt a one off. anyway happy two years to the pilot.

UPDATE rolling past two and a half years and 38k miles on the pilot now, figured id close the loop for anyone researching a used carpool hauler.

still a rock. the whole running list since the wiper motor is one set of tires, two oil changes a year, a battery this spring, and a cabin filter i do myself. thats it for two and a half years of daily kid and dog abuse. we took it to the smoky mountains last summer packed to the roof and it did not care one bit.

would i buy off harbert's again, no question, and honestly when my oldest starts driving in a couple years the used lot is exactly where i am going to send him looking for a first car. fair prices, honest listings, and they fixed the little stuff before i drove off. thats all you can ask buying a used family truck. thanks for reading, back to the carpool line.

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